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wkndr

Deep dive retreats for people ready to date differently.

San Francisco
next up

SF

August 15–16, 2026

we're taking the wkndr to the city — aka an urban retreat in San Francisco. think honest conversations, real connection w other awesome singles, body work, and, of course, date practice. in the middle of one of the most beautiful cities in the world.

spots are limited.

Reserve yours here
coming in 2027

the Valentine's
wkndr is back

Allie + Shaun are teaming up yet again, to bring the wkndr back Valentine's Day 2027.

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last time, we spent the weekend at AKERA in the Catskills for 3 days of honest conversation, embodied practice, brave dating reps, and real connection.

  • we talked about how modern dating got so confusing.
  • we practiced listening to our own inner systems of knowing — thoughts, emotions, body, TruthVoice.
  • we learned tools for better meets and better dates.
  • we actually went on dates.
  • we held each other.
  • and we experienced what it feels like to be in a room where people are showing up openly + honestly.

if you want first access when spots open (space will be limited again),
join the waitlist and we'll reach out before spots go live.

what past attendees are saying

“Loved this experience so much!! Allie and Shaun make an incredible team of leaders and I felt fully seen and held by them and in the container they created that allowed me to grow my capacity to love and be loved even more than I thought possible.”

Past Participant

“The Feels and Love Drive Weekender is a mix of deep work and lighthearted experiences. Walk in believing you know so much, walk out feeling and understanding so much more.”

Past Participant

“This event will help you get out of your head and serve as a mental and emotional reset. It could find you a partner or friends. You will meet real people with interesting life stories and experiences who will be vulnerable. It will remind you to be playful and mindful. It will teach you something new about relationships and the various schools of thought. Allie and Shaun make a great team. Playful, instructive, yet casual at times.”

Past Participant