wkndr

Deep dive retreats for people ready to date differently.

The Feels Weekend Retreats

coming in 2027

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last time, we spent the weekend at AKERA in the Catskills for 3 days of honest conversation, embodied practice, brave dating reps, and real connection.

  • we talked about how modern dating got so confusing.
  • we practiced listening to our own inner systems of knowing — thoughts, emotions, body, TruthVoice.
  • we learned tools for better meets and better dates.
  • we actually went on dates.
  • we held each other.
  • and we experienced what it feels like to be in a room where people are showing up openly + honestly.

In 2027, we return to where it all began: to Kripalu, where sessions will be interspersed with world class yoga, sauna, hikes -- and all that the legendary retreat center has to offer.

Reserve your spot

A note before you register:

We recommend that participants complete a Feels Level 1 workshop, attend a similar retreat, or have engaged in embodiment work or therapy prior to attending WKNDR. This retreat builds on foundational connection and somatic practices, and guests who've already done that work tend to get the most out of the experience.

San Francisco

SF

In August, we took the wkndr to the city — aka an urban retreat in San Francisco. think honest conversations, real connection w other awesome singles, body work, and, of course, date practice. in the middle of one of the most beautiful cities in the world.

be the first to know about when plans finalize to return to the bay in august 2027.

Our Framework

the WKNDR draws from decades of research and practice in somatic work, relational psychology, embodied connection, and mindfulness. we've integrated influences from various therapeutic modalities, thinkers, and practices to create a container for genuine connection + personal growth.

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concepts and influences

what past attendees are saying

“Loved this experience so much!! Allie and Shaun make an incredible team of leaders and I felt fully seen and held by them and in the container they created that allowed me to grow my capacity to love and be loved even more than I thought possible.”

Past Participant

“The Feels and Love Drive Weekender is a mix of deep work and lighthearted experiences. Walk in believing you know so much, walk out feeling and understanding so much more.”

Past Participant

“This event will help you get out of your head and serve as a mental and emotional reset. It could find you a partner or friends. You will meet real people with interesting life stories and experiences who will be vulnerable. It will remind you to be playful and mindful. It will teach you something new about relationships and the various schools of thought. Allie and Shaun make a great team. Playful, instructive, yet casual at times.”

Past Participant