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Currently in LA, NYC & SF
‘The Feels’ was developed in partnership with Columbia University’s Spirit Mind Body Institute; the format fuses positive psychology, group relations theory, somatic awareness, mindfulness + non violent communication tactics. Throughout the evening, you’ll be guided through prompts, positive reflections, and somatic elements like eye gazes and hugs.
We believe when you feel good + grounded in you -- that’s the best place to connect with others.
'The feels', our flagship offering, is a 3-hour facilitated evening for singles built around somatic awareness, mindfulness, and present moment connection.
a personal coaching journey through your patterns in love, with the option to be introduced to people who're equally interested in high fidelity relating.
tools and frameworks for better relating, available whenever you're ready to go deeper.
an immersive weekend that'll put you into direct practice with fellow attendees, and leave you with a group of fellow travellers who are very likely to remain in your life for a long time to come.
“I’ve avoided the world of dating my whole adult life, but am ready to change that. This was my first real attempt. It was a great way to jump right in.”
Past Participant, NYC
“I like the way in which there were deeper conversations other than the standard surface level questions. It made people think of not only how to look inside themselves but also how to listen and be attentive in the moment.”
Past Participant, NYC
“Intimate, expansive, deep.”
Past Participant, NYC
“Even though I didn’t feel like I met someone I could contact after the event to potentially date, I left feeling hopeful that there are people out there who are willing to be fully engaged and invested in a partner. That was refreshing after so many disappointing interactions in my recent past.”
Past Participant, NYC
“The prompts felt very deep and personal. I was surprised to find myself opening up so quickly.”
Past Participant, NYC
“The flow of events was truly wonderful. The whole evening felt safe, fun & like a creative way to meet other people.”
Past Participant, NYC
“It was a very cool experience and interesting concept, validating the uncomfortable and knowing other people are there for similar reasons.”
Past Participant, NYC
Allie Hoffman
For nearly 20 years, Allie's work has focused on community building. Media she has produced or directed has been viewed more than 150 million times, changed laws in 33 different states, and was featured in publications like the New York Times, Guardian, Teen Vogue on a regular basis. Her past clients include Alicia Keys, Charlize Theron, Pharrell Williams, Caitlyn Jenner, and Jose Andres, and more. In 2021, Allie transitioned from building digital --> IRL movements, and began focusing exclusively at the intersection of experience design, community and inner work. Her flagship offering, 'the feels', was launched in Aug 2022 and since then has hosted thousands of people across 4 cities. Allie holds an undergraduate degree in political science from the University of Southern California and a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology from Columbia University.
Zia Lawrence
Zia Lawrence is a facilitator, actor and writer empowering people to drop into their core humanity and heal themselves from the inside out. They are an alum of Sarah Lawrence College and hold a MFA from NYU’s prestigious Graduate Acting Program. They are also a joyfully dedicated student of Buddhism and believe that the foundation of human happiness is compassion. They are so blessed to say their work has brought them not only all over the country but this precious world. Their work as an artist and facilitator focuses on using joy, presence, and patience to ride the waves of human emotion onto the beaches of joy. They hope to help humans seek refugee in healthy communication in order to find their way onto the path of fulfilling relationship. Community is key!





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