Feels Academy

an online, embodied approach to relating for humans who
are ready to LEARN how to feel more.

The current dating sitch

The Dating industry is not built for depth. it’s optimized for swipes.
Its selling ‘success’ thru dating app profile reviews, how to game the algorithm, how to manifest one’s perfect person.

We do not believe this is what’s going to lead you – or anyone else – to feeling what we all want to feel: seen. held. loved. belonged.

We have a theory as to how we can all better date + relate: we believe it begins with you knowing you better.

From there, we believe in forming dyads that have more honesty built in; And extending out even wider: we believe you need an (IRL) community around you, as this is ultimately the best place to meet your person.

The Feels Academy exists as a radical alternative to the current dating industry paradigm: its designed to be a space to slow down, tune in, and build relational skills many of us were never taught.

Our Philosophy

We focus on embodiment, awareness, and relational honesty.

At The Feels, we believe your body is a source of information, not something to override. Clarity doesn’t come from more analysis, it comes from self-trust.

Feels Academy brings together embodied practice, key relational tools, and real-time connection so people don’t just think about dating differently, they experience it differently.

It’s about becoming more available to the kind of connection you actually want.

Modern Dating

101

Modern Dating 101 is a self-paced program designed for people who want more clarity,
more agency, and more self-trust in their dating lives.

Over 8-weeks, this course explores:

the current landscape + why now is the hardest moment in history to be dating

how to overcome some of the macro-level challenges we’re in

how to tune into your body, so you can start to make new choices

how to identify your patterns, and start to re-wire them

new tools for relating 1:1 with ppl you’re called to

the mechanics of where and how to meet people today

This course is presently available as a library of 45 minute, week-by-week sessions that’ll teach and guide. In addition to the videos, there’s a reading list + worksheets to download.

Get The Course

(self)Trust in Practice is a 7-week online accountability + instructional experience to help
you meet your relating goals for the year ahead.

Inside the group, you’ll get:

structured accountability — with a Group Bestie + the wider cohort

tools and exercises to help you tune into yourself, build intimacy, and navigate modern dating

real-time lessons and practice in live sessions led by Allie and Beth

support via discussions, WhatsApp and, when possible, in-person meetups in NYC, LA, and SF

This isn’t another course or therapy session. It’s an experience that blends coaching, relational insight, and shared practice so you can stay connected to your values, boundaries, and emotional truth.

Next cohort begins March 5, 2026.

Join the Group

What’s Next:

In-Person (in NYC)

In the Classroom: an 8 week live educational experience.

This fall, Feels Academy will expand beyond the screen.
For the first time, we’re offering a live, in-person educational experience designed to bring
embodied relational work into physical space.

Week by week, we’ll create a space where embodiment, present-moment awareness, and
nervous system regulation can be felt directly, thus rewiring your system from the inside
out.

This offering will bring together:

Somatic practices

Guided relational exercises

Group connection

Real-world application

Target dates: September 8 - October 27
Every Tuesday evening from 730 - 930pm
If you are in the Tristate Area + want first access, sign up to the waitlist.

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