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Feels Pair’d

a high-fidelity 'matchmaking' experience for those ready to show up fully in dating.




We’ve hosted thousands of singles from coast-to-coast. 

 

We talk to you – our community – every day about what’s going on with modern dating, and how we might collectively remake what we’re in. 

 

What we’ve learned is dating can feel heavy + the current systems aren’t working in your best interests.

How it works

Feels Pair’d activates a psycho-spiritual theoretical approach that focuses on emotional intelligence, somatic awareness + spiritual attunement.

We also ask practical questions, like what you’re looking for (ie Kids? No kids?) and how you want to be in relationship.

Once we receive payment, you’ll receive a custom-built questionnaire; we use that to match you with others who are at a similar stage in their journey. 

You’ll have an onboarding call w Allie, who does all the pairing. Once that’s complete, she’ll start matching you. 

At the same time, you’ll be assigned to a Feels Guide who will be your coach for 4 sessions, each 50 mins each. With your Guide, you’ll dive deep into blocks, shadows, wounds – what’s still to be seen. 

You’re activating a team who are focused on your aliveness + relational well-being; in fact, we encourage you to message us for advice and support throughout the entire program period. 

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(More on) the experience

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Once payment is received, you’ll receive an email from us with the questionnaire + ask for an onboarding call with Allie;
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Post onboarding call, you typically receive a first potential match within 1-2 weeks, tho sometimes sooner;
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Only a ‘yes’ from you counts towards your 3 matches;
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(typically) once a match is in progress, we set you up with your Feels Guide to start coaching. In some instances, we will propose starting coaching earlier;
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Our goal is to match you - YES - but we’re as if not more interested in helping you to navigate self trust, pattern rewiring, embodiment + inner systems of knowing - to name a few. We make sure that what’s ready to be seen - is put into view.

Some things to know

If we do not feel confident we’ve got strong enough matches for you, we’ll return your money;

We provide lotsa information on either side of the match. We will send you images + descriptions + why we like the match AFTER we’ve gotten buy in from the other person, to ensure that there’s mutual interest;

what happens after we link you, is up to you both, tho we’re fo sure here for you as you need us.

Why should you be in?

…cause modern dating is broken, and we’ve got time-tested, deeply intentional approaches to how we fix it – and this will single-handedly put you at the frontlines of those;

…cause we have built a thousands-strong community of people whose values align around curiosity + openness + intentionality - and we believe that’s going to provide a strong foundation for program participants to treat each other well;

…and cause we believe this is a significantly better experience than dating apps. Instead of promoting (more) bad behavior - this rewires it completely;

…and finally: cause being in the practice is important. Meaning: we did not design ‘feels pair’d’ to hand you the love of your life, per say. Instead - we believe being its vvv important to be in the practice of dating + relating. Its in this space that deep learning and understanding is gained; this will drop you directly into that.


Who this is for:

Its for you, if you value trust. We dont believe dating is a numbers game - which means our process + how we match - is in part ineffable. We’re looking for those ready to be in the magic with us;
Its for you, if you’re ready for a totally new approach to dating. We don’t believe in extensive non negotiable lists. We dont believe in ick lists. We dont want you to come with years of manifesting your perfect person. We’re here for what happens when we let go of control, agenda + strategy - and we’ll guide you there.
Its for you, if you’re ready for a totally new approach to dating. We don’t believe in extensive non negotiable lists. We dont believe in ick lists. We dont want you to come with years of manifesting your perfect person. We’re here for what happens when we let go of control, agenda + strategy - and we’ll guide you there.

Ready? Cool - we are too

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*Enrollment is a one-time, non-refundable fee. We only move forward if we’re confident we can introduce you to at least three great matches—if not, you’ll get your money back.

3 matches for

$3,750

What People Are Saying

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“Absolutely it was worth it. I got the outcome I wanted – a unique, interesting learning opportunity. Meeting the individuals was a secondary goal; I really liked the coaching aspect.”

- Past Participant, NYC

“The dynamics were higher fidelity for sure…it was the best IRL dating experience I’ve had.”

- Past Participant, NYC

“I’ve avoided the world of dating my whole adult life, but am ready to change that. This was my first real attempt.
It was a great way to jump right in.”

Past Participant, NYC