The Feels
Currently in LA, DC + NYC
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‘The Feels’ was developed in partnership with Columbia University’s Spirit Mind Body Institute; the format fuses positive psychology, group relations theory, somatic awareness, mindfulness + non violent communication tactics. Throughout the evening, you’ll be guided through prompts, positive reflections, and somatic elements like eye gazes and hugs.
We believe when you feel good + grounded in you -- that’s the best place to connect with others.
we believe our bodies hold ancient, infinite wisdom; we guide you into tapping into yours.
we believe we all desire to feel seen + heard; we guide you into a mutual exchange.
we believe its time for a new era in dating; we’re nurturing a community of 1000’s of people who believe ‘better relating is possible’
“I’ve avoided the world of dating my whole adult life, but am ready to change that. This was my first real attempt. It was a great way to jump right in.”
Past Participant, NYC
“I like the way in which there were deeper conversations other than the standard surface level questions. It made people think of not only how to look inside themselves but also how to listen and be attentive in the moment.”
Past Participant, NYC
“Intimate, expansive, deep.”
Past Participant, NYC
“Even though I didn’t feel like I met someone I could contact after the event to potentially date, I left feeling hopeful that there are people out there who are willing to be fully engaged and invested in a partner. That was refreshing after so many disappointing interactions in my recent past.”
Past Participant, NYC
“The prompts felt very deep and personal. I was surprised to find myself opening up so quickly.”
Past Participant, NYC
“The flow of events was truly wonderful. The whole evening felt safe, fun & like a creative way to meet other people.”
Past Participant, NYC
“It was a very cool experience and interesting concept, validating the uncomfortable and knowing other people are there for similar reasons.”
Past Participant, NYC
Allie Hoffman
For nearly 20 years, Allie's work has focused on community building. Media she has produced or directed has been viewed more than 150 million times, changed laws in 33 different states, and was featured in publications like the New York Times, Guardian, Teen Vogue on a regular basis. Her past clients include Alicia Keys, Charlize Theron, Pharrell Williams, Caitlyn Jenner, and Jose Andres, and more. In 2021, Allie transitioned from building digital --> IRL movements, and began focusing exclusively at the intersection of experience design, community and inner work. Her flagship offering, 'the feels', was launched in Aug 2022 and since then has hosted thousands of people across 4 cities. Allie holds an undergraduate degree in political science from the University of Southern California and a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology from Columbia University.
Zoe Galle
Zoe is a Queer Artist, Somatic Coach, Facilitator, and Educator empowering the folks they work with to show up authentically and courageously in the most critical moments life throws at them. They regularly facilitate with The Ariel Group and teach at Harvard Business School, Capital One, General Mills, TVA, Kipp Public Charter Schools, Citrin Cooperman, Lippencott, and FTthey Consulting. They believe our embodied intelligence and the greater wisdom of the natural world play a critical role in finding right action that allows more people to thrive, moves us into a more equitable and peaceful existence and turns us towards a path of eco somatic awareness where we understand ourselves as responsible stewards to the land.
Past and current partners across our LA, DC and NYC communities include:
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Hear about all Feels events, thoughts around relating from our founder Allie, and more.
